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		<title>Must-Have Power</title>
		<link>http://cainandenabler.wordpress.com/2011/12/29/must-have-power/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 21:01:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Moore Dianne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As David Johnson and Jeff VanVonderen state in their book The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse, leaders in an abusive religious system “spend a lot of time focused on their own authority and reminding others of it, as well.”[i] Those with true spiritual power walk their talk. Their life is their message. Cain’s life is [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cainandenabler.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6158114&amp;post=373&amp;subd=cainandenabler&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Appearances Make the Man</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jul 2011 14:08:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Moore Dianne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cain is always more interested in appearances than in truth. He is more concerned with how he looks than how he or anyone else feels. He must be right and will not give up until he convinces others to see things his way. The minister’s wife repeatedly referred to their children as “her” children rather [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cainandenabler.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6158114&amp;post=327&amp;subd=cainandenabler&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Signs and Symptoms of Spiritual Abuse</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 18:53:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Moore Dianne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While society recognizes physical and emotional abuse as evil, few consider spiritual abuse and the harm it can cause individuals. Cainistic ministers and their obligatory followers are not disturbed about the impact of their rejection on church attendees. In fact the leader in my church kept his supporters emotionally attached through his approval and disapproval. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cainandenabler.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6158114&amp;post=317&amp;subd=cainandenabler&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Cain Is A Thief</title>
		<link>http://cainandenabler.wordpress.com/2011/07/09/cain-is-a-thief/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2011 19:24:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Moore Dianne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The cainistic church I attended was large. Subsequently, a widespread criticism was the lack of closeness among members; it was difficult to get to know people if all you did was show up for an hour a week on Sunday. One day a lay person developed a small group program with the hope of creating [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cainandenabler.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6158114&amp;post=313&amp;subd=cainandenabler&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Tithing –The Road to Prosperity or Not</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jul 2011 00:51:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Moore Dianne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There was a huge focus on tithing in the cainistic church. The implication—almost a perilous warning—was that somehow the worshiper would miss out on God’s blessing without tithing. The church criticized other churches that used guilt tactics to control their people, but this church was no different when it came to tithing, just more covert [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cainandenabler.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6158114&amp;post=306&amp;subd=cainandenabler&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>One Dimensional Realtionship</title>
		<link>http://cainandenabler.wordpress.com/2011/07/06/one-dimensional-realtionship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jul 2011 21:15:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Moore Dianne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cain loves favors and special treatment from others but cannot reciprocate. Cain expects people to fawn over him, providing all the attention and admiration he wants, but the relationship is one dimensional. When I was thinking of obtaining my Masters Degree in Spiritual Psychology at the University of Santa Monica, I asked the cainistic minister [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cainandenabler.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6158114&amp;post=302&amp;subd=cainandenabler&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Cain in the Pulpit</title>
		<link>http://cainandenabler.wordpress.com/2011/07/05/cain-in-the-pulpit/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2011 17:55:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Moore Dianne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A Cain in church “is likely to taunt and torment his followers, heckle and chastise them, humiliate and berate them, abuse them spiritually, or even sexually,” explains a self-proclaimed Cain and author Sam Vakin in his book “Malignant Self Love.” He goes on to write that parishioners are nothing more than “obedient and unquestioning slaves [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cainandenabler.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6158114&amp;post=259&amp;subd=cainandenabler&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Audio Post</title>
		<link>http://cainandenabler.wordpress.com/2010/08/28/audio-post-6/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Aug 2010 19:08:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Moore Dianne</dc:creator>
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		<title>Cult-Like Obsession in a Cainistic Church</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Aug 2010 18:42:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Moore Dianne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“When you meet the friendliest people you have ever known, who introduce you to the most loving group of people you’ve ever encountered, and you find the leader to be the most inspired, caring, compassionate and understanding person you’ve ever met, and then you learn that the cause of the group is something you never dared hope could be accomplished, and all of this sounds too good to be true it probably is too good to be true! Don’t give up your education, your hopes and ambitions, to follow a rainbow.” <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cainandenabler.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6158114&amp;post=232&amp;subd=cainandenabler&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Audio Post</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 23:57:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Moore Dianne</dc:creator>
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